The tittle of this post is meant to come off as sarcastic but I think I failed. During my blogcation, I made it a point to do stuffs and visit places I'd never been in Abuja before. At the top of my list was the zoo in Abuja. It seemed everyone I know had been. Only me. Hai! I don't even know how comes I was always passing it. My mom told me I would love it, "you'd see giraffes and antelopes and a tortoise as big as a table" I was ecstatic! I could not wait to go. When I told my friends I'd be going and asked if they would like to come with, they tried to cramp my style saying things like "oh, that place is dead, there is nothing there" I…

My Blogger experience Friendship in your community I've been in the blogging industry for just a little over a year now. My experience all this while has varied from time to time. From not having a clue as to what I was doing to feeling like a total fraud whenever I say I'm a blogger, to finally (thankfully) been comfortable and even feeling like part of the community. So what changed? How did I go from feeling like a fraud to having a spot and a voice in the community?  Friendship. I can honestly say making friends have been the number one reason I am where I am today. A more confident blogger, a more informed blogger and a happier blogger in general. Life as a 20-something year old woman living in Abuja can very…